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The top three relationship killers

Not playing together anymore
Life is busy, but when you realise that you’ve stopped making time to do things together and enjoying each other’s company, the relationship is in trouble. Being in a relationship is about wanting to be with that person because you, well……you just love spending time together and sharing your life with them. Fix this as a priority. It doesn’t have to be anything ground breaking, a walk with the dog, a drink in the pub, a meal out, easy things.

Not engaging
We all multi task from time to time and have conversations whilst doing at least another 2 or 3 other things at the same time. The problem occurs when you feel that you are constantly not heard, that you are constantly side lined for texting, emails, watching TV or just have a feeling that all the right sounds are being made but your partner isn’t REALLY listening. ENGAGE with your partner and really hear what they are saying, not because you think you should, but because you are genuinely interested in how they are, how their day went, and most importantly that you care.

Criticism
Part of a normal relationship is that there always a few underlying irritants about each other. When these turn into full on criticism that becomes a constant feature, you need to address this quickly. A successful relationship is one where we are aware of each other’s faults but find ways to manage them that keep both people happy. Whatever the irritant is, there is always a way to negotiate a solution. Sometimes involving a third party helps to apply a bit of lateral thinking on the problem rather than being stuck within the boundary of your own opinion.

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It’s great to have a leading psychologist such as Wendy in the Manchester area, outside of her Harley Street practice. After publicly raising awareness of mental health issues and myself recovering from depression, I know how immensely life-changing expert intervention can be.

Jason Jarrett

Retired ex-professional football who played for Bury, Wigan, Stoke, Preston, Norwich, Leicester and Brighton during a 14 year career. After leaving professional football, Jason battled depression and recovered with the help of therapy and family support.

Wendy is great at what she does; she made me feel at ease immediately and really helped me work through some issues.

Tara Costello

It’s funny but from the minute I met her I felt so relaxed and she was so easy to talk to. Thank you!

Stevie Brown

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Gabriel Wilson

I want to thank you Wendy from the bottom of my heart for guiding me through what must have been the most difficult time of my life.

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I was told she was the best and they were right.

Noelle Dray

Although I consider myself a confident person, I was really nervous when I met Wendy for the first time. I had only emailed her before so it was really nerve wracking walking up the stairs to her office. I can honestly say it’s one of the best things I have ever done. Wendy is really normal, no in fact she isn’t normal as she is unfailingly bright and smiley even when she has to listen to me moan on about how awful my life was. It feels like having a chat with somebody who just gets you and you can trust with things you have never trusted anybody else with before. The magic bit comes when things you have talked about just pop up into your head and you start to do things differently. Wendy once joked about not having a magic wand, but I think she has.

Paul Hendry

I came to Wendy with a set of problems I have never been able to fully explain to anyone, which included grief, many family issues and alcohol problems. Wendy truly has an active listening style and absorbs everything you are saying, whilst not making you feel analysed, it is an incredible skill. She astounded me at how she got to the crux of the issues so fast. So much so that we both agreed I only needed one session with her, obviously this may not be the case with everyone but I would confidently recommend her to anyone, regardless of your problems. There was no awkwardness or even clock watching, she is wonderful at what she does, take the plunge and make an appointment, you will not regret it. Life is a direction not a destination and she will get you on the path again.

JB

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